Being a wifey ;)

Today is Saturday and Dude the Husband is working. He left at 7 this morning. BUT! I'm okay:) really I am. I am now teaching myself not to be sad, stressed out & moody. Lagipon xde faedahnya. Because I know I shall meet him again soon:) plus xnk Dude the Husband risau. Being so mengada2 is so not in ok. :P But honestly I feel better this morning, tak mcm lastweek sedih guling2. Heh! Ala Dude the Husband is only 1hr 30mins away. He'll be fine. I'll be fine. We'll be fine:) plus Dude the Husband da ajar cara nak download lagu dgn cepat ^_^

How's life now? FAQ by many people. Honestly being married is wonderful moment ever (way better than finding perfect outfit on the clearance rack). Being married to a great man is another point. The first challenge I need to face is - gosok baju keje Dude the Husband. Honestly aku jarang gosok baju lelaki. Baju abah pon baju melayu, kain pelikat. yang lain Ibu buat. Hehehe. First time gosok baju kemeja Dude the Husband, it took me 30mins just for one shirt! sumpah rasa terok gile. Iron board jatoh nasib tak hempap kaki. -_-' tapi semalam dgn jayanya aku gosok 3 baju dlm mase 20mins! Hebat kan? maybe sbb Dude bagi 'encouragement' just by staring at me with his sweet smile doing the ironing thing. heee! ok next!

On thurs aku masak. Dude bagi 7/10. woot2! hahaha! kawen dgn lelaki yg mak die masak sgt sedap adalah satu tekanan ye kawan2. aku pon rase skill memasak aku xterok sgt :P will cook more after this! ala masak once in a week je, apela sgt. lg pon utk husband, sgtla berbunga hati tgk die mkn ape aku msak:) tp pagi ni aku smpt wat kopi je bekal dude bawak blk kedah. next time org wat toast ke, meehoon goreng ke, ye awk?

see you nextweek:) Insyallah. Till then take good care of urself ok.

I can feel the symptoms now!

1. Bloating/excess gas
2. Craving certain foods - in my case, all sorts of food
3. Fatigue
4. Feeling irritable, agitated
5. Oversensitive

yes, my period is coming soon =)

ngeh, ngeh, ngeh!

Alhamdulilah V.2

Yay abes da 2minggu bcantek2 dan bbaju sarat manik, berposing 2jam tanpa henti. Penang reception was done beautifully by Husband's family. Buat kat Dewan Masyarakat Penyayang, Georgetown (kot). tp mmg in d middle of the town. Family dr sg.buloh smpai jumaat tghari, aku dgn dude amek dieorg then bawak peg pasar chowrasta (haha betol ke ni) borong buah pala! mak aihh mkck2 semua beli mcm2. lama gak la kt situ. suke dieorg;) pastu peg gurney drive nak mkn laksa air hitam yg ibu sgt suke dan suroh semue org try. hari itu adalah super panas!! smue org mkn pasembor, laksa mcm2 lagi. oh dieorg dtg 1 bas dgn 2kete. sadly 2org abg aku xdpt dtg:( lpas majlis kt dewan dieorg semua gerak blk, dlm pkol 4pm cmtu. rasa sgt amat terharu tgk dieorg dtg beramai2:) ibu abah, adk bradik, anak sdare, cousins dila, k.ija, kawan2 rapat ibu, mkck ana, mkck enon jiran sebelah. tq dtg:) meh bg 1 gmba dlu. nnt upload lg byk2! hehehh!

p/s: dude seseme, sian die (yes die xpyah blk kedah! woohoo!)

The Feeling of The Day.

I want that heels!!

and this!! so I can fly to hubby dude!

us now

what I want to do with him for one whole year!

Insyallah, he'll be here in 4hours from now.
=)

Not in a good mood.

2hari kene tinggal, aku da rasa moody, malas, emosi tak tentu hala. aku ingt aku ok, tp br je 2hari aku da mcmni. tanak pon focus sgt perasaan yg mcm ni, but being me, if you know what I mean. Badan rasa lemah2 ayam, pastu asek nak tido je. da brape lame aku xtdo siang, lately asek nk tido je plak. Lupe plak ada lagi satu reception. kendur2 la kulet muke i ni. Huhu! tadi g beli baju pengapit kt penang. teka sape? pengapit kesayangan saye la-IRA MOK!! she'll be here on friday!

So esok dude balik by the mean time, muke aku mcmni:


LDR SUCKS!

The Dress

Akad Nikah

Kain chiffon beaded beli kat Jakel thn lepas. suke detail beading on the kain. theme color for nikah pon ikot kaler beads tu - purple. akibat bloghopping selama hampir setahon aku jumpela fashion cmne aku nk buat utk bj nikah ni. kain utk baju aku buat veil. kain plak aku nak plain chiffon yang dikedut2kan. nak flowy2 gitu. tukang jahit dari kajang, tukang jahit kakak aku ni, highly recommended, sgt selesa pkai baju die jahit. kakak tu berjaya tuka kain tu jadi veil, siap jahit manik tepi2 veil tu;) total cost: beli kain rm400++ (cmpor dgn baju dude), upah jahit+carik kain+jahit manik RM400. Mmg berbaloi2. kalau beli siap pon bley dpt range harga mcmni aorund RM600-RM800. lengan baju mmg aku mntak buat besar, tanak ade cuff. Baju dude die tempah kt penang-kedai cina katenya. dieorg jahit mmg selesa.
Malam Berinai
Baju ni sewa dr butik pengantin dkat xsmpai 5minit dr umah aku. asalnya baju dude pon kaler hitam tp nk letak kaler sketla, so dude pkai merah hitam. aku suke baju ni. ramai suke. beaded die penoh, baju jadi jatoh berat. sdap pkai:)

rase nk tampa2 muka dude. eh takbley. derhaka nanti! huhu

Sanding
Baju ni sewa tmpt yg sama. Baju ni baju baru. aku mntak off white sbb ble tgk kaler putih sgt mcm xbrape cntek. lgpon theme color aku da terang so we chose this color. asalnya mmg nk semue putih. dkt 2bln tnggu baju ni siap.

love at the first sight

veil nya pjg sgt. suke ^_^

Tudung nikah aku beli kt ariani. ade sale! tudung mlm berinai courtesy butik baju tu. seb bek aku suke. tudung sanding ni drama sket. 2hari sblm blk kawen aritu merata aku carik kt penang. ariani ade kt sg.petani je. dekat 5kedai aku peg. lastly jumpe kat butik Fareeda. kain tudung sgt selesa pkai, sejuk kt dlm. sbb awning die plain aku peg anta kedai lain tmbah batu manik for only RM20! at least ada bling2 sket la, xsarat sgt. all in all, sebagai si pemakai baju2 ni aku sgt puas hati. alhamdulilah, wpon fitting sekali je semua muat. baju nikah kene kecikkan lagi, akibat berat badan turun. haa nnt aku share cmne nk lose weight! heh! baju dude plak mmg xfitting! berani mati kan? baju sanding tu mcm mmg dibuatkan utk die. aritu test2 je baju lain akak tu xamek ukuran ape pon. seb baik muat:)

Penang Reception
Sebab kt sg buloh da pkai kaler2 decent, kt penang aku nk kaler terang! the idea is tgk baju mane yg cantek dlu, kaler ape baju tu, br jadi tema kaler reception. hahah! selfish? huhu! baju belah penang drama sket. sket je. 2bln b4 wedding aku g tgk baju, pilih, bekenan, fitting. tgk besar! xpe bley alter. akak tu xamek ukuran baju mase pkai. die ukur badan aku je (mcm nk buat bj baru) ok xpe janji by the time aku amek nnt the dress fits me well. 2hari b4 reception day aku peg kedai tu nk amek baju dgn dude. bila akak tu bg aku baju yg berhanger tu aku tgk something wrong! Oh tidak! baju tu baju lain! bkn baju aku fitting haritu! bley imagine? aku try baju lain die peg alter baju lain. akak da panas time tu. die br prasan die salah tulis. die tulis color baju je. padahal ada 4-5helai baju kaler yg sama! dlm pnas2 tu aku tros tpandang 1 baju ni. mcm die memanggil2. try me! try me! ok scary. aku tros ckp tanak baju tu, saye nk try baju ni! aku try and it fits me well!! ok ketat la, mmg btol2 ikot badan aku xslesa. so die kate die bley adjust. fine, aku bg tempoh smpai ptg tu je, by 6pm aku nk amek. mlm tu dude yg peg amek then bile aku try, hati jadi sejuk balik:) maybe itu hikmahnye kot, sbb bj ni i think better dr baju mule2 aku nak tu.

pndangan sisi

aku mmg sediakan sendiri tudung dan kasot. mane la tau xbkenan dgn yg dieorg bg sewa skali dgn baju. ramalan ku benar belaka. huhu. tudung n baju courtesy diri sndiri. owhyes dgn inner baju tu. sbb inner yg die bg bkn size aku. haih. tp baju2 kt butik tu mmg cantik2. aku suke. byk choice n slalu ada yg baru. bj mcm aku pkai ni ada 3colors, blue turquoise yg aku pkai, merah (sgt cantek) dgn white pink. sape b2b penang nk cube2 tgk baju kt situ bley email saye:) hafizahalil@gmail.com

next: shoes

Chenta Hati Saya.

Kteorg kenal in hujung 2003. msok uitm sama2. amek course yg sama. masa tu buat pre-degree TESL kt uitm bukit sekilau. Yes tmpt tu jadi tmpt pertama kteorg jumpe. pre-degree 2sem/ setahon je. 1st sem aku sumpah xnmpak dia. tak prasan die ada. tak tau kewujudan dia. tak tau nama ape etc. msok 2nd sem br nampak. kejam tak aku? 2nd sem kteorg byk buat group work sama2. byk spend time sama2. sampai blakon drama dia jadi hero aku jadi heroin. hahahah!!

1st time klua dgn dia, kteorg klua berempat. aku, dia, ira dgn pet. cmne ntah most of the time kteorg jln sama2. bbual mcm da lame jumpe. one thing for sure, aku sgtla amat comfortable dgn dia. most of the time ckp psal music dan soal2 kehidupan. hehehe! die suka hip hop. aku more to rock. sampai dia blaja dgr incubus, silverchair etc sbb nak rapat dgn aku. aku tak plak dgr hip hop. hehe! sampaila abes pre-degree kteorg sama2 dpt smbong degree kt uitm shah alam. kt shah alam lain sket. da xbrape rapat. xsure kenapa. maybe aku lebih byk masa dgn kawan2 masa tu. aku pon tanak ada boyfriend kononnya sbb takot xleh concentrate blaja. poyo? sgt!! tp aku suke die amek tau psal aku tp..ok aku in denial! dkat 2thn jgk. die da mcm give up so kteorg xbtegor selama 2thn tu. jumpe kt skul (term fakulti kteorg) sorang peg kiri, sorang peg kanan. bkn gadoh ape pon tp rase awkward. tapi die xpenah miss wish bday aku. bile aku reply die senyap and dats it.
sampaila satu mlm, aku amek ira dr bus stand then kteorg nk peg tgk mawi kt AF! (OK KETAWA SKANG) peg kedai mkn wira sejati. smpai je aku tros duk tgk mawi nyanyi dgn khusuknya. tibe2 ade msg msok. "jaoh dtg tgk mawi?" it was from him! aku rase nk shuffle kt kedai tu. ye aku gmbire excited nk mampos! aku tnggu dekat 2jam gakla nk reply blk. bile aku reply die xreply smpai aku paksa2 die reply jgk! start dr mlm tu kteorg contact each other blk sampai aku abes degree, dia berulang peg blk penang-shah alam jumpe aku, pndah shah alam keje kt shah alam and finally abes master, dia propose. kawan2 uitm kteorg byk tau la history btween us. semua org pngil die tamok, aku pjoy. tp kteorg sama sndiri tak penah pngil each other dgn nama tu. die slalu akan start text aku "eit girl.." aku reply "eit dude" each and every time sblm start balas2 msg2. lama2 melakat nama tu. "eit" ye bkn "hi" mane die dpt ejaan tu pon aku xtau. nnt nk tny. hehehe.

So Dude, Just want you to know I'm more than happy to be yours. Knowing that we have each other now is the best thing ever. Seeing you in front of me every night and day is the best moment ever. To see your smile without saying anything is the greatest gift ever. Thanks for the patience, thanks for the handsome heart that you have for me, thanks for being the man that I can count on, thanks for being you to make me feel what I feel now. Thanks for the hands for me to hold whenever I want. Thanks for the shoulder I can lean on. Thanks for you being you for me. and now that you are my husband, anugerah paling indah Allah berikan pada saya:)

Sayang awak sampai syurga.

Alhamdulilah:)

Allah je yang tau betapa bersyukur dan gembiranya aku hari ni. Alhamdulilah aku sekarang seorang isteri kepada lelaki bernama Saiful Hisham Salim. 8 April 2011 kami selamat diijab kabulkan around 6pm. sepatotnya lepas asar tapi terlewat sikit. Alhamdulilah everything turned our to be almost exactly like what I wanted. From the pelamin, the deco, food, dress, goodies, signage etc. Will make a specific entry for each of those soon. What I can say is, sgt berbaloi masa yang aku habiskan online bloghopping sana sini pasal wedding. Preparation is the keyword. Do a lot of survey is another keyword. Jangan malas the other keyword.

Btw, thanks those who came:) aku prasan ramai jgk xdpt dtg. its ok, korang doakan pon da ckop. Gamba dr OP biasela blom siap lagi. yg ada gmba raw dr FB. These are some of the list nak share:

Photographer: Digital Syndicate
Make up Artist: Awin Seindahwajah
Catering: Rimbun Catering, sg.buloh
Pelamin: DIY
Deco: DIY
Bilik Pengantin deco: DIYBaju Nikah: Kajang (bkn Man Kajang eyh)Baju Sanding: K. Anis, Sg. Buloh
Welcome board signage (sanding): Merisik Gallery
Welcome board (nikah): DIY
Lantern: Fastprintmalaysia.comPelamin Nikah: DIY + Qarmasutra (throw pillow)
Doorgift: DIY
Kasot (sanding + nikah): Chadstone, PenangInai: Janani, Sg.buloh
Guestbook table deco: DIY

me and my bride maid and also best friend dunia akhirat

alhamdulilah;)

Semalam drive blk dr sg buloh ke penang. hari ni kteorg 2-2 da start keje. blk rumah mak tros tido sana. abah call pesan jgn bgn lmbt kt umah mak mertua. haha! pkol 4.45am da bgn, around 5.15am kteorg gerak balik, dude anta aku blk umah sewa pastu tros drive blk kedah. ok sedih :( Insyallah kite jumpe kames ni ye awk? next-reception @ penang!

later ye.

oh thanks to KUDUT and IRAMOK for the review;)

Alhamdulilah!

Bukan. Belom nikah lagi. Hehehe.. Alhamdulilah aku da sampai rumah tepat pkol 10mlm tadi;) driver bas bukan main laju, seolah2 tau aku xsabar2 nak smpai rumah. haha! seolah2 ok! Ibu Abah amek pastu teros peg rumah anuar amek throw pillow. Comel sekali pillow2 tu. Byk kali dia pesan jaga elok2, bila dia ckp cmtu teros tnampak muka haziq dan anak2 sedara aku!! Huhu! Thank you la anuar kasik i pinjam wpon i tak amek u wat pelamin i. hik!

Dengan mngada2 aku tido bilik pengantin mlm ni. sbb ada ekon! hahahah! msok kawasan umah tros nmpak pelamin ^_^ tinggi gak stage nya mcm stage kt sekolah. hahah! msok dlm umah plak nmpak pelamin nikah >.< ok ni ada yg xbkenan. teros aku pnjat tuka position backdrop, cmpak2 pillow tadi pastu tros senyum. Ibu tgk je sambil anggok2. Heehee! Lepas mandi aku teros buat welcome board utk nikah, easel wani da hantar haritu dgn lantern tu yg smngat nk tros buat. skang da pkol 1am aku xtido lagi!
Esok, pegi booking inai - peg kepong pick up welcome board sanding - psang lantern ;)

Actually, I just wanna say that I'm so happy to be home ^_^

2days :)

Insyallah malam nanti smpai rumah. Honestly aku da tak keruan duk sini. Selagi tak sampai rumah tak tenteram hati ni. Kat rumah semua depan mata boleh buat macam2, tolong ibu, setelkan benda last minit cepat. I can't wait to go home!! Malam nanti smpai je da nak peg collect throw pillow dgn welcome board. Esok nak g booking inai, pasang langsir rumah, kemas bilik pengantin ku..huhu! aku bawak balik 3 bag. mcm2 ada. selagi belom majlis memang tak habis nak membeli. opps!

Thank you so much to me dear students yang sgt thoughtful bagi wedding gift:) in advance, plus a very sweet card. A fruit extractor is exactly what I need! hehe! Puan Wan Zarina pon da anta adiah kat umah straight from Johor. Thanks ina:) aku xkire ko kene dtg jgk!

Tak lalu diam duk umah tunggu jam pkol 4pm, linda the mommy dgn baik hati nak hantar peg naik bas jap lagi. Can I just fly home? like Superman?

Doakan saya selamat sampai:)

Dude, i'll see you this friday ye, Insyallah:)

4days!

Hari ni buat last shopping before the big day. Finally I found the right shoes! Susah plak nk carik kasot. Kalau tak nampak je yg cantek, ni semua pon hoddoh. Penat pusing 1 gurney plaza smlm. Dari kedai mahal smpai kedai cikai aku msok! Lastly jumpe kt queensbay! Yg plg best dpt murahh!!! Both kasot nikah + sanding tak smpai RM200;) pastu carik brg2 deco bilik including pokok bunga nk letak dlm toilet! smpai amoi lovely lace da kenal aku, 3 hari bturut2 peg situ! Huhahaha! (peg dgn dude die tarek aku klua ok!)

Call Ibu tadi tanya progress, mcm2 gak da buat. Abah plak call tadi tanya stamp pad apa nak beli, nak cop camne... alahai sian ibu abah. rasa nak start keta teros blk sg.buloh! tapi selasa baru blk:( tunggu ye ibu abah, insyallah mlm selasa nanti adik smpai. Oh surat kebenaran kawin br dpt smlm. Alhamdulilah, settlee jgk. drama jgkla nk dptkan surat tu.

Esok nk carik tudung, pastu print welcome sign utk majlis nikah, pastu... ape lagi ek?

mari nk share. ini design stamp k.mango buatkan. benda alah ni la yg dieorg tgh stamp atas paper bag tu skang. aku pilih 1 design jela kan. teka yg mane? rahhhsie! wuahahaa!

Can't wait to go home!!

Nona Roguy Spa Treatment

For first timer like me, it was a great treatment! Baru blk dari spa kat Nona Roguy Bkt Mertajam. K.nani suggests buat kat sini. The service is good. This is the package I did:

Sauna - 30mins
Lulur - 1 hour
Mandi susu - 15minsUrut - 1 hour

Sauna aku larat 25mins je sbb da pening2. Heheh. Bibik tu teros bagi minom air msak gelas besar. Byk gile peloh2 klua smpai rasa bendenyut2 1 badan. Lulur sgt best! Habis 1 badan kena sental. Kecuali breast dgn private part je die xpegang. Lulur die tak bau rempah. wangi je. 1 hour ok kene sental. habes je tros msok bath tub mandi susu. then urot 1 badan. sbenarnya buat facial tp aku tuka dgn urot. lg smnggu ni tkot lak nk wat facial. Urot mmg best! lagi2 kat bontot dgn kepala. tetido la jgk 10mins. Hehe.. Semua ni bibik tu sorang je buat. Die sgtla friendly and professional. Toke kedai nama Kak Anne. Die wat facial je lain2 ni bibik tu buat. Hasil dari peg spa? halus mulus kulet i! hahaha!! Rasa kulet lebih cerah. badan pon ringan. ni br buat sekali. lepas kawen ni ingat nak peg once a month. Aku rasa murah pakej ni. Semua sekali RM180 shj. kt shah alam mane nk dpt! Oh lagi satu, during the treatment akak tu psang lagu jawa. so knon2 kat bali la. hahah! tapi sbb aku xbiase buat mlm saket2 badan hokey! jadi lemah2 mcm br lepas buat aerobik 1jam!

To b2b kat penang bley try spa k.anne ni. call je die buat appointment. 0134317040 / 045522245 tak pon peg blog die pusatrawatankecantikan.blogspot

Will definitely consider to do this again and again!